Mutually Incompatible Users

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el gatito
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Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by el gatito » Sat May 30, 2020 6:14 pm

There were, possibly are, and most certainly will be, pairs of mutually incompatible users. It generally leads to conflicts, or at least users will not be willing to actively participate. How this can be addressed?

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by Turtle Clan » Sat May 30, 2020 6:44 pm

Metta, patience, humour, gratitude, humility ... or, perhaps, resignation to the inevitable.
I agree with you and see, from my own experience, that there are some users/members with whom I feel quite incompatible and would be surprised if this was not the case for most. I try to limit any waves and turbulence to internal conversations. Sometimes disturbance overflows at which point it is useful to offer apology and not hold any hard feelings.

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by Larry » Sat May 30, 2020 8:07 pm

Tumbling rocks. Polishing & smoothing each other’s blind spots & rough edges.

Not that I’ve got any :lol:

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by Turtle Clan » Sat May 30, 2020 8:09 pm

This seems to be a good thread in which to say:
Welcome Jundo

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by fuki » Sat May 30, 2020 8:19 pm

el gatito wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 6:14 pm
How this can be addressed?
Like any zen story or 'public case', like "wash your bowl"
:)

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by Larry » Sat May 30, 2020 8:21 pm

Turtle Clan wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 8:09 pm
This seems to be a good thread in which to say:
Welcome Jundo
Where? Where? Who is he disguised as? :D

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by Larry » Sat May 30, 2020 8:24 pm

fuki wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 8:19 pm
:)
That emoji still looks slightly constipated :lol:

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by fuki » Sat May 30, 2020 8:24 pm

Larry wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 8:07 pm
Tumbling rocks. Polishing & smoothing each other’s blind spots & rough edges.

Not that I’ve got any :lol:
:lol:

Ah my "matching whole" said it already :lol:
Hope no cats will be killed in the 'new' forum but I'm afraid a frame of reference is already created :D

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by fuki » Sat May 30, 2020 8:27 pm

Larry wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 8:24 pm

That emoji still looks slightly constipated :lol:
Yes, quit compatible with "Buddhism" isn't it?
Perhaps use it as the forum's banner? :lol:

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by fuki » Sat May 30, 2020 8:28 pm

Larry wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 8:21 pm

Where? Where? Who is he disguised as? :D
:D

Nansen! :lol:
[SPOILER]
ps one of us might have to leave the forum, just too compatible :lol:

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by Larry » Sat May 30, 2020 8:41 pm

fuki wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 8:28 pm
Nansen! :lol:
:lol:

I love Norwegian explorers :lol:

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by Turtle Clan » Sat May 30, 2020 10:02 pm

fuki wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 8:28 pm
:D
Nansen! :lol:
Sounds uncomfortably close to nonzense.
:geek:

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by fuki » Sat May 30, 2020 11:44 pm

Turtle Clan wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 10:02 pm

Sounds uncomfortably close to nonzense.
:geek:
Yes, how can this be addressed? :D

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by fuki » Sat May 30, 2020 11:54 pm

Larry wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 8:41 pm

I love Norwegian explorers :lol:
Don't let the Finnish hear you! :lol:

https://www.google.com/search?q=incompa ... DxlXjUAzrM

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by Turtle Clan » Sat May 30, 2020 11:57 pm

fuki wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 11:44 pm
Turtle Clan wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 10:02 pm

Sounds uncomfortably close to nonzense.
:geek:
Yes, how can this be addressed? :D
Thanks for inviting jundocohen

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by fuki » Sun May 31, 2020 12:01 am

Turtle Clan wrote:
Sat May 30, 2020 11:57 pm
Thanks for inviting jundocohen
Do you assume that I did?

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by Turtle Clan » Sun May 31, 2020 12:14 am

Yes I do. Fuki’s place. I may be wrong. Thanks anyway.

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by el gatito » Sun May 31, 2020 12:18 am

There can be implemented a 5 word limit forum-wide for 14 days (quarantine period) and this may solve some problems. With too wordly posters (current and future).

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by fuki » Sun May 31, 2020 12:22 am

Turtle Clan wrote:
Sun May 31, 2020 12:14 am
Yes I do. Fuki’s place. I may be wrong. Thanks anyway.
I didn't :)
Please know this isn't "fuki's place" Clyde was so kind to reopen zenspace with the humurous addition of naming a forum that. (I can't make or change subforums) I'm just happy it's open and hope ppl will see the forums and everyone's potential as an instrument/function for that, no matter names like "fuki" "jundo" or "whoever" no matter past, present or future conditions? Most assumptions are "wrong" like "Obese people eat too much" or "asian people are good at math" or "dutch ppl are just nonzense" (hmmm that one might be "right") Just some words :D

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Re: Mutually Incompatible Users

Post by Turtle Clan » Sun May 31, 2020 1:31 am

Ok, good.
(two words)
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