insults and inaapropiate behaviour

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insults and inaapropiate behaviour

Post by fuki » Thu Jul 05, 2018 12:38 pm

Caodemarte wrote:
Mon Jul 02, 2018 11:49 pm
A number of off topic, insulting, and inappropriate posts deleted. Please keep the discussion civil and on topic.
A place where we can reflect on our own or general human behaviour without pointing fingers about perceived external conditions or persons or who's "right or wrong"

When we insult or (unconstructively) criticise another it's not talking with someone but against someone right?
Inappropiate behaviour is a symptom of what....?

anger is always a manifestation of anxiety/fear, if we know our actions can hurt people, why still do it. Because we're talking against each other in opposition, from reactivity not openness or unity. I believe it's necessary for ppl to express they're uncomfortable with certain speech when directed to them, but often we ignore or simply point the finger back by telling them they are doing or saying something wrong.

Any thoughts/reflections?

if ppl are willing they can copy posts here and see this as an experiment, so don't reply in another thread where it gets deleted by moderators (rightly so in my view) that is if the mods would allow this experiment.
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